Ahdama for Men

Four days. Three nights. Nothing to perform.

An immersive retreat for Jewish men who have been carrying it alone and are done doing it that way.

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throughSouth FloridaApplications open
Arrival
Thursday by 5 PM
Conclusion
Sunday by 5 PM
Facilitators
Omar Pinto, Meir Kalmanson, and Eli Nash
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The retreat

Four days away from the life you built.

You have been carrying it alone for a long time. The work, the family, the standard you hold yourself to, and whatever it is you have never said to anyone. For four days you put it down in a room of Jewish men doing the same, and you find out what is underneath.

  • 01

    Facilitated work

    Group work and psychodrama

  • 02

    Body and movement

    Breathwork, exercise, ecstatic dance, and cold plunge

  • 03

    Stillness and quiet

    Meditation and time without a phone

  • 04

    Meals and brotherhood

    Real food, men's circles, and time to connect

  • 05

    Shabbos & prayer

    Shabbos meals and prayer for those who choose

Eli at Ahdama
Men practicing boxing outdoors at Ahdama
Men supporting one another during a cold plunge

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A look inside the room.

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An Ahdama dinner table prepared for the evening

What is included

The practical details.

Lodging
Lodging is included, either inside the home or in a well appointed 20 foot bell tent. All accommodations are shared with other men.
Food
All meals, snacks, and drinks are included. The food is generous, thoughtfully prepared, and served with the same care given to the rest of the experience. Every meal is kosher under the supervision of our chef and mashgiach, Mendy Baruch. We can accommodate most dietary needs and allergies when you tell us in advance.
Travel
For those flying, Fort Lauderdale–Hollywood International Airport and Miami International Airport are both convenient options. Before the retreat, we create a WhatsApp group so attendees can coordinate and, when possible, share transportation.
Individual considerations
You are asked to be in the room for everything. You are never required to do anything. Medical, physical, and other considerations are reviewed with you individually.

The process

How joining Ahdama works.

A thoughtfully assembled group of men in an Ahdama circle

The room is intentional.

We read every application ourselves to make sure each man is a fit for the work and the group. No one attends simply by reserving a spot. The men beside you have been thoughtfully considered too.

  1. 01

    Apply

    Complete the application and tell us what is bringing you to Ahdama. Select a retreat date if one works for you.

  2. 02

    We review

    An Ahdama team member reviews your application for fit. We may call you if we need to understand something more clearly.

  3. 03

    Approved

    Approval makes you a member of Ahdama. That is what opens retreats and everything that follows.

  4. 04

    Book your retreat

    Choose from the available retreats and complete your booking. Your place is confirmed once registration is complete.

After booking

You will receive your confirmation, waiver, and packing list. You will also be invited to the attendee WhatsApp group before the retreat.

The men who come are not more ready than you are.

Apply to join AhdamaA thoughtful application. A real human review. Answered within a week.