An ongoing brotherhood for Jewish men, renewed annually.

Remember who you are.

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AHDAMA

Ah. The breath.

Adam. The man.

Adama. The earth he was formed from.

Ahdameh l'Elyon. And the One he was made to resemble.

Who finds his way here

For the man who has built a life and can feel what got left behind.

He may have done years of therapy. He may never have said any of it out loud to another man.

He is not looking to be fixed.

He is ready to stop doing it alone.

Is this for me?

Ways in

Every man comes in through a door.

Three immersive experiences to choose from. The one that makes you uneasy is usually the one.

Men

Ahdama for Men

Step away from the noise. Four days and three nights of honesty, challenge, movement, and being fully met.

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Couples

Ahdama for Couples

A deeper expression of a man’s work, lived inside the relationship that asks the most of him. Four days and three nights to step out of the noise, see one another more clearly, and return to each other.

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Outdoors

Ahdama in the Wild

Four days and three nights shaped by nature, physical challenge, fire, brotherhood, and grounded inner work.

Next dates to be announced.

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Everything matters

Deep work
requires real care.

Real food, kosher, not processed, presented with intention. How a man is fed is the first thing that tells him where he is.

Jewish belonging

There is room for every Jewish man.

Some of the men here keep everything. Some have not been observant in years. Some are finding their way back in a way that feels right to them. Some are keeping all of it and have not meant a word of it in years.

Nobody here is being brought back to anything. Nobody here is being talked out of anything.

We do not ask where you stand with it. We ask that you remember who you are.

It takes courage to remember.